Why Women Reject Men – Part 1
Now let's talk about those rare instances where a woman actually rejects a man.
For the sake of this discussion, I want to define "rejection" as a woman doing something that lets you know that she's upset and offended that you started talking to her, and she responds in a mean or vicious way to make you go away.
I do not consider a woman walking away without stopping to talk to you, her saying "No thank you", or any other time when a woman just simply doesn't engage to be "rejection".
If you do consider these things to be rejection, please stop reading now, call your mom into your room, and tell her that it's time you grew up and moved out...and that she'll get over the fact that she can't choose your clothes for you and hug you when you have a boo-boo anymore.
I digress...
I've found that there are a few main reasons why women actually do reject men (by the way, it's very rare that I actually get "rejected" anymore... it's probably happened to me once in the last 100 times I've started a conversation with a woman... because I don't do dumb-ass things anymore).
Here are the main ones:
1. The guy isn't paying attention, and he does something stupid to begin with.
Some guys think it's appropriate to walk up to a woman, put their arm around her, and say, "Hey baby, you sure do look hot tonight".
Some guys don't see anything wrong with following a woman around all night, staring at her constantly, then walking over with a nervous, sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying, "You remind me of my sister".
These are bad ideas.
2. The guy doesn't stop when he should.
If two women are sitting alone at a table in the corner, and one of them is obviously upset, and you walk over to them and say, "Hi, can I buy you a drink?"... and the upset one looks at you and says, "No thanks, we're in the middle of a conversation" (then looks away from you back at her friend)... and you say, "Aw, cummon, have a drink. You need to lighten up and have some
fun"... and she looks back at you and says firmly, "We're busy"... and you say, "What, are you in a bad mood or something? I'm just trying to buy you a drink"... and she says, "We don't want a drink"... and you say, "Well maybe your friend does"... and the friend says, "No, I don't want one either"...
Ok, hopefully you get it.
If you ever do something like this, you are a dumb ass, and you deserve to be slapped and have 47 drinks thrown in your lap.
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