How to Avoid Getting Rejected By Women
Most men hate the idea of "rejection".
I'm not talking about "don't like the idea" or "wish it didn't happen"... I'm talking hate here.
The idea of walking up to a woman and having her reject you causes most men to instantly feel sick in the pit of their stomachs and literally feel a horrible combination of nervousness and confusion.
A guy can psych himself up for an hour to go talk to a woman, but when the moment comes to actually do it, everything changes.
The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens, eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejection fill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bare.
Most men find this state so scary that they end up deciding to forget about approaching the women... just to end the discomfort.
The temptation is great to just "walk away" because just as quickly as the intense nervousness is triggered by the moment one decides to act, it goes away when you decide to "forget about it and walk away".
The fact that "choosing to walk away" leads to the "instant gratification" of the nervous feeling going away makes it the most popular option.
Most of the time (and I'm talking about probably 99% of the time here) men just walk away. They give up before they've even started.
I find this topic fascinating.
If I just think about it, I can remember many times in my past where I wanted to talk to a woman, but I just didn't do it.
In fact, many of them are so vivid that I can remember the exact setting, what the girl looked like, who else was there, etc... and I'm talking about situations that happened years ago.
These moments obviously made an impression.
I can also remember kicking myself for days afterwards for not approaching and talking to these girls. Can you relate?
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