Three Ways To Rescue A Relationship
Is the road to your relationship marked with pot holes. Every couple experiences tough times. But, if you are willing to try here are 3 paths to keep a relationship.
Often it is the simplest little things that aggravate us. And it seems our partner knows, and uses to his advantage, every one of them.
Usually the other person is totally unaware they are part of the problem. After all what’s leaving the toilet seat up going to hurt, or spending part of the grocery money on those great shoes?
Little things do add, up and they count, when it comes to relationships. That’s why our first tip has to do with communication.
1. Communication. Ladies you have to talk with him about that toilet seat. Let him know why it is important to you. And, guys sit down with her and agree on how you “both” are going to spend your finances.
It is a really good idea to have a date night…that’s with each other. And, that means no kids. This gives you a chance to spend some time together, talk about all those things that are on your mind and just enjoy each others company.
Remember you fell in love by spending alone time, that’s how you keep love alive.
2. Be forgiving. Now that we are talking, realize it is not all your lover’s fault. Look at your own actions. It’s easy to feel like every thing is against you and your lover just doesn’t care. They really do care and would be glad to show it if you would give them a chance.
When your partner comes up with the newest and latest quirk that drives you mad, look for the reason. It could be a problem at work, maybe they are just tired.
3. Be honest. Maybe this should be first? If you are not straight forward in your relationship you will not have a relationship some day. Sometimes we are less that sincere with our lovers because we are trying to protect ourselves from emotional pain. When in truth if we are straight forward with each other about our feelings they are much more likely to be responsive in the way we desire. So, both partners win in the end.
Building a partnership is hard work and requires us to change some of our pet ways of doing things and being a little vulnerable. But, the heart to heart partnership you build between you will last a lifetime.
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About the Author: Steve has had the good fortune to have a background in Christian counseling, working in group settings and individual coaching.
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